Leading into a female's phone number


Leading into a female's phone number

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We men ask women too many questions that the whole process becomes an interview.Granted that you want to 'hire' her but she should not be nevous or unsure about the encounter but she should be in a state of comfortability and security.

It is also true that if we don't ask questions, we may never get answers but we need to be tactful in getting our information.Show a little class!

At the time of this writting,I have gotten a few numbers(especially from this dime which you shall know as Sheshe...lol).This was not written to show off or make you feel anyway negative so forgive me if thats what you felt but it was written to prove that what this post will contain works.

To all females out there,this post has no gimmicks but the aim is to get a man to get your number with respect.Respect is the essence of the game,its needed.So don't think that it is to to reveal to men nasty ways of trying to play you.Lets be mature about this!The post was done to help out, just like I have been helped(from females as well as men).

So anyways when getting the number from a female, DON'T ASK, SUGGEST AN EXCHANGE OR GIVE YOURS.

Lets break it down;

DON'T ASK,SUGGEST

When you feel you are at the point to get the number, asking seems to ruin the flow.Suggesting an EXCHANGE continues the vibe.For example:

You:Lets exchange numbers.
Her:Write yours first.
You: 555-555-55[put your name]
Her:okay 555-555-55
You:Expect a text or call one of these days and you can get at me anytime :)
Her:lol okay
You:see you
Her:see you

Suggesting an exchange subconsciously has made you LEAD the situation into getting what you want instead of leaving it up to her to lead by asking a question.In general (note this word general) Men are leaders(one minded),women are managers(multi-taskers).

DON'T ASK,GIVE YOURS

An Example:

You:Lets exchange numbers
Her:Sorry I don't give my number out to strangers.
You: Thats cute, take mine and call when you feel like making a new friend.
Her:lol, just so you know I may never call.
You:lol,thats why the word used was 'feel like', when ever you get that feeling,you can let me know...lol.

This is true persistence, not backing down at the first sign of no.You merely re-strategised.Saying 'feel like' has given the woman a choice and lets her know that whether she calls or not,its cool,the whole world don't evolve around her,you'll simply live on.

Everything in this post is not advice, merely suggestions.It works for me.

Good luck!





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jpangkilla's picture

Good stuff here. I like

Good stuff here. I like it.

~Jpangkilla~