Going to a woman to exchange words and get feedbacks without fear

Most guys are too nervous or afraid to approach women.People say it is the fear of rejection that they are afraid of, this is not quite true.What most men fear is losing, they know that when they approach the woman and things don't go their way,there may not be a second chance therefore losing.It is the possibility of losing the woman paralyses a man to approach.A man would rather live in fantasy that lose the woman in reality.In fantasy land they have the woman,losing her in real life means he is not even justified to fantasize about her.

Once a man doesn't fear losing then a woman will easily be approached but there is still something all men dread and that is what to say.What all men should first understand is that you are approaching the woman to EXCHANGE words and to get FEEDBACKS not validation.A woman should never be the one to validate you as a man, its not her job.Your validation of a man should come from knowing yourself and understanding that you are Unique(knowing that you'll represent yourself because there is nobody in this world like you).

We reject things but we get feedbacks from people.A woman is a person,she can only give feedbacks not rejection.Society has deemed it as rejection,I don't know why because a woman is capable of changing her mind.Therefore because men are not in tune to this, we fear losing.

All men should also know that when they take the first steps towards the woman, they have already started showing your CONFIDENCE and that they have COURAGE.This is because a woman will hardly ever,ever,EVER approach a man, not only that but society has deemed it our 'job' as a man to approach first.Knowing this,all thats left for a man to do is to maintain the confidence(they've already got high points for courage because you were able to come over and exchange words with her).

The approach is all about communication not talking.Don't talk at her,let her get a word in.Communication is an exchange of words,so she says a few and then you say a few.It takes two.A woman loves talking(many statistics have proven this) so let her do most of the communicating(her 80% to you 40%).Saying less words gives a man of sense of mystery and a man is perceived as a good listener.

-On approach avoid asking too many questions,it is not an interview.
-Avoid complimenting her body or her looks,she is not a display for you.

Come with STATEMENTS and SUGGESTIONS:

For Example:

Hey Afternoon.You seem like a person worth knowing so feel no way about me coming over to initiate this introduction.My name is [say name].....

or

Hey afternoon,you caught my eyes, allow me to exchange words with you for a minute.

and so on...you may devise new one on the spot,just make sure they are statements or suggestion.Use the word hey to show friendliness and instill familiarity in her.Also don't forget manners by saying Afternoon,Morning and so on....

All that has been put down in this posts are not advice,merely suggestions.

Good luck!